My children have a secret meeting every day. They decide who will melt down when, how to amplify the situation as much as possible, when to be so, SO good and when to push buttons, like the ones on the computer, the blender and mommy. They also meet to decide who will wake up for a middle of the night feeding, who will wet the bed and who will wander around the house sleep walking, all at different times during the night. Swear. Swear that they they have this strategic planning meeting...probably while I am in the bathroom. I am so outnumbered!